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) and a lot of it is about maleness and masculinity, and it reminds me of the passages in your book about men keeping company with men. Because of my family situation and cultural and religious background, my old self believed was that I was dirty and bad for being a man.I think it's something to be encouraged.""The book No more Mr Nice Guy has confronted me with the fact that I am a Nice Guy. I’ve learned that my needs as a man are good and important.”“I read No More Mr. At the time I weighed in at 170kg, I was on the verge of bankruptcy, and I had not been sexual with a female for 12 years.
Since beginning my own recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome, I have worked with thousands of Nice Guys. Nice Guy groups a week, lead seminars and workshops all over the world, taught online classes, and wrote the book, No More Mr. Now, twenty plus years after first beginning my journey of exploration, I can attest that there is hope and recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome. I have had several 1-on-1 sessions with Robert and attended a men's group for help in my dating life.
I developed my own music booking company and a career as a live performer in Seattle. I spent quite a bit of time in Co DA meetings over the last decade and felt quite at home there.
I tried to be a better man than the other men in her past. I slowly began to see how my “Nice Guy” behavior was not only not getting me what I wanted in my relationship, it was actually doing great damage. Glover had followed me around for 30 years documenting my life story.
In spite of everything I did for her, it never seemed enough. She was frequently moody and would lash out at me, seemingly without provocation. I avoided conflict and withheld any information – including my feelings and wants – that I thought might rock the boat or start a fight. When it became apparent that our relationship wasn’t working well for either of us, I decided (actually, she gave me an ultimatum, “Go to counseling or I’m leaving.”) to join a men’s group and get some counseling.
I was sure the map was accurate, but no matter how hard I tried, it never got me to my desired destination. The guys who either couldn’t get a date or who were deeply entrenched in the friend zone with the women they desired. I want to thank you in advance for the changes that are coming.
These guys helped out and listened to women talk about their problems. I think it's going to be a lot of work but worth it.”“I was a web developer for 10 years and now I’m a manager for other web developers.
I came to realize that the road map I had been using my entire life was extremely flawed and incapable of helping me get what I wanted. I'll never be able to thank Robert enough for life saving material."“I read your book on the plane on a business trip this week.
I began to learn about things like boundaries, self-care, self-soothing, and honesty. I've read the book several times and even bought the audio book! Glover's dating and relationship podcasts and they continue to change my life.
I started doing the Breaking Free exercises and started the first No More Mister Nice Guy men's group in Melbourne (Australia).
I went from a depressed, frustrated and suicidal male to a man on a mission and ready to face the world.
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